Naked Before God: In Community

Up to this point we have been discussing being naked before God in our own personal worship, individually; just God and you. This can and should be a wonderful time, regularly observed. Yet it is not the end of matter by a long stretch; rather, it is the beginning. God made humanity for community, and His purpose and will is that this community would be in fellowship with Him, thus becoming His very expression of who and what He is; we saw quite clearly in our examination of His image a couple of years ago, that this was His intention from the very beginning.

For most of us however, it is one thing to be naked before God in privacy and safety, but it is quite another thing to be naked before one another in any sense of the term. Certainly, in the literal physical sense of the term, the notion of baring all in front of others is simply outside the scope of what is even thinkable or acceptable for most people, and you will no doubt be relieved to learn that I have no intention of going there, for that is entirely too simplistic and hardly scratches the surface.  You see, this isn’t a matter of simply baring body; it’s a matter of baring soul, of being real, genuine and letting people see who we really are. It is about trusting, caring and loving others in a way that allows us to put their interests ahead of our own, not just in word, but in deed.

We could say that in this whole discussion, that “naked” actually means “relationship”, and that would be a very wise and insightful observation, for that is what it really comes down to. Yet it isn’t just relationship, it goes deeper, to the quality of the relationship. Recall that for us to be naked before God means that our relationships with Him are intimate, open, no holds barred, with everything out in the open. There is no holding back, no attempts to deceive and no barriers of any kind. To be naked before God in community with other believers is that there is the same level of openness between us and the others as there is between us and God, and obviously, such a human community requires that there be many who have matured enough in their relationships with God to be able to handle this level of intimacy with other people.

This dear reader is what it means to make disciples; it begins with godly love.

Far too many Christians are under the mistaken impression that making disciples is little more than making “converts”, but nothing could be further from the truth. Making disciples is really the ultimate act of love in action wherein we lovingly guide another into the kind of maturity that will enable them to become makers of disciples themselves. One who “makes” disciples is a mentor, a teacher, a trainer, and most of all, an example. He or she is one who can share the love of God and love of others in a way that brings their younger brother or sister into a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. That person is one who loves, shares and leads others, he or she is one who lets their guard down, who respects, who trusts, who sets ego aside for the benefit of others and who lives in such a level of transparency before both Man and God, that they inspire the legitimate trust of others; they are naked before God and in community with others.

To be honest with you, most of us haven’t quite attained the ideal we’ve been talking about here. Most of our churches are not doing as well as we’d like, many are shrinking, others may even be on life support. Many people have left “church” behind and are happy to share a litany of complaints about churches they used to attend. We can come up with a long list of possible causes for this sort of thing, yet most of our lists, while accurate, don’t really tell the story. They will speak of over reliance on traditions, forms and details, but these are only the symptoms; the causes of the problems run much deeper than that. If I might be so bold, the biggest problem in American (and I suspect other) churches today is that there are not enough people who are really naked before God, needless to say, there are even fewer who are “naked” in community. I’m not sure about you, but I think this is worth getting into next time.

About Don Merritt

A long time teacher and writer, Don hopes to share his varied life's experiences in a different way with a Christian perspective.
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8 Responses to Naked Before God: In Community

  1. BT says:

    Year ago I was made aware of the difference between “making disciples” and “having disciples”. The difference between these two is a divided and secular powerless church or one of unity, strength and Love in God. It is only in our ability (by His Spirit) to make disciples unto Christ will the church (the ekklesia) know of the unity and power of the brotherhood of Christ in truth and reality. We are not hear to raise up adherents we are here to bring men and women unto HIM for it is UNTO HIM shall our gathering be. Not in any other name but His, not in any other agenda but His.

    Awesome word may we all work and minister to this ONE end.


  2. Sue Love says:

    I agree, but I believe this must be done with wisdom and discernment, and under the guidance and direction of the Holy Spirit. And, I will add that a lot of people, probably, have borne their souls to others only to be betrayed and mistreated, in return, and so they may be cautious, perhaps even fearful of being so transparent in the future, for not everyone can be trusted. Not everyone in community has a close walk with the Lord and has the best interest of others in mind.

    But, if the Lord leads us to do so, we must bear our souls regardless of the potential consequences, because we do so in order to help others who may be going through something similar, and so we risk being hated and mistreated in order to help others who are hurting and are in need of encouragement. For, that is what Jesus did, and what he modeled to us that we must do, too. Sue

  3. Reblogged this on Cynthia Hilston – Author & Blogger and commented:
    I love this. “Naked” before God and others means being genuine, real, honest, open, loving. It seems so easy, yet can prove so hard. I have had the humbling and amazing experience of being in a group of people and being able to bare my soul. This has happened often in my Christcare group (a small group of women from my church who have been meeting on Mondays since 2011), in the pastor’s Bible study, and in other groups in my past. I am blessed to have had these experiences, and I encourage others to seek out small groups, where you can gain true friends who you can bare you soul to and they can do likewise. It’s really a beautiful thing.

  4. Yes, transparency has not always been well accepted inside the church walls. In many places, it still isn’t. However, I’ve found that being transparent often brings more unity to the Body than living behind our self-imposed masks.
    I’d always been instructed not to air your struggles in front of the congregation. “They will lose respect of you as a leader,” was the mantra. In my life, the opposite proved true. I gained more heart to heart supporters and friends by being real. Of course, one must listen to Holy Spirit and share as He leads. When He is leading, there is always blessing.

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