This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
1 John 4:9-12
What an amazing story this is on so many levels; that God loved us so much He sent His Son to die for us. I wonder how often any of us slow down enough to just let that sink in. We weren’t deserving, we hadn’t earned His favor; far from it! We were living in open rebellion against God, and yet He loved us that much.
That wasn’t the end of the story, not by a long shot. Trough his great love for us, He forgave our sins, setting them aside entirely and entered into an intimate relationship with us. The real question here is how we should respond to his love. For those of us who really grasp the significance of what He has done for us, it is only natural that we would develop and deep love for God, yet even that isn’t the end of the story! We “ought to love one another” is John’s conclusion. Still, there is more at work than we might think at first: when we love one another, God is living in us, and in our love for one another, God’s love is made complete.
How is this so? It really isn’t very complicated, for God loves us and in response we love Him back. God also loves our brother and sister, and when we do the same for His sake, His love dwells within each of us and throughout the entire Body of believers, completing to cycle of His great love.
John states this about as clearly as it can be stated in 1 John 4:19: “We love because he first loved us.” Paul puts it slightly differently: “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8
That our love for God comes from His love for us would seem to be an established fact in Scripture. Thus, it is the greatest of all the commandments: Love God.
The second greatest commandment
The second greatest commandment is to love your neighbor as yourself.
Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Matthew 22:37-30
He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” Luke 10:27
“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:29-31
We all know these verses, most of us know them by heart, but why are they so important? The answer to this question really isn’t so difficult if we remember that God first loved all of us and sent His Son to die for all of us and not just for you or me. That God would want us to share His love with our neighbor makes all kinds of sense, just as a parent would want their child to share the parent’s love for his or her siblings. In the New Testament, this love for our neighbor is carried forward as our love for one another within the church in a special way.
God loved us – We love God – God loves others – So do we
This is the cycle that makes God’s love complete in us. My brother or sister may not always be lovable, but because God loves them and I love God, I decide to love them too, in spite of their faults, for are their faults really that much greater than my own? John makes this entire cycle clear in an amazing passage, 1 John 4:7-21 and I hope you will read it. Some of the other verses relating to this are listed below:
| John 13:34-35; 14:21; 15:17; 17:23 | Ephesians 1:15; 4:2 | 1 Peter 1:22; 2:17; 3:8; 4:8 |
| Romans 5:5; 8:28, 35; 12:10; 13:8-10 | Colossians 1:4; 2:2; 3:14 | 1 John 2:10; 3:11, 14; 4:7-21 |
| 1 Corinthians 8:3 | 1 Thessalonians 3:12; 4:9-10 | |
| Galatians 5:13-14 | 2 Thessalonians 1:3 | |
This is a theme that carries throughout the entire New Testament, and it is also the very core of all Christian Theology. If you want to really take a wide view of the subject, it is also the primary purpose of the Church and can be summed up in the words of Jesus: “Make disciples.”
Wait just a minute! Isn’t this supposed to be about forgiveness?
Of course this really is about forgiveness, since all of this “love” business is at the very heart of the matter. As always, we’ll press on tomorrow with our next thrill-packed installment; see you then!
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This is interesting!
Loved that podcast yesterday. Love this too 🙂
Thank you!
Wow, Don. Excellent post. “I wonder how often any of us slow down enough to just let that sink in.” Not very often, I’m afraid. Sad that we need reminders to remember Him, remember His sacrifice. I was thinking the other day about how alone He must have felt on the cross and I thought about all of our modern conveniences and instant connection to anyone and everyone pretty much anywhere. We feel “alone” when we haven’t talked to another person for a couple of hours. Christ alone on the cross HAD to happen because He took on all our sins. But how often do we let it sink in (as you asked) that He was completely alone? He had the Father with Him His whole life. Up until that moment. It breaks my heart. And makes me that much more grateful.
Thanks, Don, as usual for a thought-provoking post.
Thank you for your thought provoking reflections! Wow… Jesus all alone on the cross… that just adds a whole new side of this story; thank you!
We’d always like to say, “It is not about numbers,” but those numbers are people we should be making disciples of! missionary fervor is all but dead in a Church that no longer seeks to win converts, or make disciples!
I agree; how can we love our neighbor as ourselves if we will stand by and watch them die without Jesus Christ?! Great observation!
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“No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.”
When John says, “No one has ever seen God, but …” my mind goes to John 1:18 where John uses the same words, though “we” are not the objects but “God the One and Only” who is Jesus the begotten Son of God, who showed us God. We, being children of God by adoption (John 1:12, Eph 1:5, Rom 5:8, …), must be like the begotten Son in displaying God in our lives. God is displayed in His children, whether begotten or adopted! Since “God is Love” (as John also says), the World sees God in His children’s love. Thus, God’s love is made “complete” (or perfected) in His children’s love.
Just a little twist of what you said, but is also reminescent of disciples knowing what the Master knows, and DOING what the Master does.
…and right on the money!
Love the scripture summaries. vw
Thanks, I do too
I always enjoy your posts, thank you for taking the time to write:)
May I add that Jesus was quoting several verses from Deuteronomy and Leviticus in His teachings: Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. Deuteronomy 6:5
love your neighbor as yourself. Leviticus 19:18
Thank you 🙂