This second batch of proverbs extends from 13:4-15:19. Chapter 13 has as its theme the need for us to accept instruction and discipline. It breaks into two sections: Instruction from a father to his son (13:1-13) and then instruction from the wise (13:14-25). As we will see, most of these proverbs are Antithetical Parallelisms in which the second half of the statement is in deliberate contrast to the first half. Looking at the first three verses, we can clearly see how this section is going to go:
A wise son heeds his father’s instruction,
but a mocker does not respond to rebukes.From the fruit of their lips people enjoy good things,
but the unfaithful have an appetite for violence.Those who guard their lips preserve their lives,
but those who speak rashly will come to ruin.Proverbs 13:1-3
Here is a more in-depth look at verse 10,,,
Where there is strife, there is pride,
but wisdom is found in those who take advice.Provers 13:10
Have you ever known someone who is always involved in controversy, arguments and disputes? Have you ever wondered why they have so much trouble?
Your answer might just be found in this proverb: Pride.
My way or the highway, you can’t say that to me, I’m right and you’re wrong… Yes, these all come from pride, the continual belief that you are somehow more worthy of respect, more valuable or just “better” than the other person. Does everybody really need your opinion on everything; must we all hear and agree with your thoughts?
If you want a life chock full of struggle and hassle, then say “yes” to those questions, but if you prefer a little peace and harmony, think again.
A person who is willing to take advice from another is a person who doesn’t just assume they are always right, for they are humble enough to recognize that others have valuable insights too. Such a person might even come to understand that they too can be wrong sometimes.
Next time we’ll take a look at the second half of this chapter, instruction from the wise. See you then!
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