I have no doubt that you are familiar with this text; it is one of the most often quoted in Scripture. No doubt you’ve studied it in studies, classes and sermons many times, but have you ever considered who the one who is not blessed is? In this final lesson on forgiveness, let’s take a look at this “other side” of the Beatitudes and see where forgiveness is and where unforgiveness is. After that, let’s examine a question about forgiveness: Could it be that God expects us to forgive others who wrong us, because we are just better off that way? Let’s go through the Beatitudes before you give your answer…
Before we jump in, let’s all be on the same page about the term “blessed”. The Greek word rendered “blessed” in the English is makareos which means “happy.” So, where the text says “Blessed are…” it means “Happy are…” in common English. Thus, it stands to reason that those who are not the blessed ones are not so happy. And with that… here we go!
5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
For a person to be called “poor in spirit” they must be humble, loving and gentle. Those who are not poor in spirit would include those who are proud, boastful and arrogant. If you think about it, being proud and arrogant requires a great deal of effort. You must always be right, you must always meet a challenge head-on, and you can never endure an insult or slight. Does that sound like a person who is likely to forgive others?
5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
People who mourn are capable of forming relationships. They love other people and can allow themselves to grieve their loss when those people are gone, but someone who does not mourn has no such relationships. They have set themselves apart from loving human interactions and cannot mourn for they do not feel warmth. These must be lonely and miserable people; do they sound like they are forgiving?
5:5 Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.
The meek are very much like the poor in spirit. They are gentle and humble and they do not strive for fame and fortune, they don’t need to be the center of attention enforcing their will on other people. Yet those who are not meek must do all of these things. Imagine the burden they must carry! At a social guttering, they feel the pressure to impress, to entertain, and to know all. They can never let their guard down, lest someone should outshine them. If someone were to wrong them, what you would get is drama that lasts weeks if not months; do I even need to ask?
5:6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.
Those who hunger and thirst for righteousness will be filled with it, but what about those who don’t? They will not find righteousness, they will not find God’s way nor will they receive mercy. Once again, they have cut themselves off from that which is right, pure and good and do not follow God’s ways. What a miserable lot they have chosen for themselves!
I would guess that you are beginning to get the feel of this approach to the Beatitudes, and if I’m right, then right about now you should be moving past who the happy people are, to beginning to recognize why some people just refuse to hear the message of forgiveness. In any case, there is a lot more to come when we get back together next time!

“Could it be that God expects us to forgive others who wrong us, because we are just better off that way?”
You ask the best questions!
Thanks!
Always a pleasure to read, and listen!
Thank you!
This was a really interesting take on these passages, Don. Simple, right down to the core of living and walking yoked to Jesus. I like it when you bring me back to seeing through the innocent eyes of the Spirit. Thank you.
Thank you Susan
Thank you for weaving into each of the Beatitudes, the indispensable grace of forgiveness. When I mourn or grieve, it is sometimes over my own failures and mistakes along with repentance and confession of sin. But I will not lose heart over my sins. I will receive God’s forgiveness and FORGIVE MYSELF,
Amen